Never let someone else's opinion become your reality!

Have you every visited a weight loss forum or a forum of any kind and someone either responded to or posted something that made you feel uncomfortable.  I mean some of the people who respond are true haters.

Granted when you are discussing any topic it is good to get both a positive and a negative view. But I have been in some forums where I have read posts that appeared to belittle everyone who dared share a different view from that participant. I have always taught my children that it is ok for everyone to have and voice an opinion, but I advised them to never let someone else's opinion become their reality. What I was trying to convey to them is that everyone has a right to feel however they want to feel about you or any topic. It is up to you to not internalize their opinion of you and began to believe their foolishness.

As you know I am on the HCG diet. I have tried many different diets and ultimately they have failed for me because I could not stick to them and gained the weight back.  HCG is the first diet that I have achieved this level of success with. Since I have been on HCG I have joined many diet forums and chats because I am interested in talking to people who are interested in the same thing that I am interested in, and what I am most interested in is reaching my weight loss goals that and perhaps finding Mr. Right and becoming independently wealthy Lol.

For the life of me I cannot understand why anyone would join such a chat rom or forum if they don't like or believe in the topic at hand. I refuse to believe that they joined in an effort to rain on my parade. If you tried something and it did not work for you, you have the right to state your opinion and offer supporting facts, but do you really need to attack the person who started or responded the thread? Do you really need to make others feel bad because they do not share your opinion? Do you really need to hate on a product that may not have worked for you because you did not stick to the protocol? Lastly on HCG forums when a new member asks a question please don't reply "Have you read Dr. Simeons Protocol" in a tone that reads you idiot don't ask any stupid questions until you've done your research. It just may not be nice.

Just a thought......


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